May 29, 1999
We
left our home at 288 Diamond Ledge Rd. in Stafford Springs with Ken leading in
the 25ft. long bed truck (a yellow Penske) truck with trailer attached, towing
his Lexus. Ken�s jeep was inside the truck. I followed with Samson and Zeus in
my jeep. We proceeded with our caravan into the hills of Pennsylvania. Throughout this travel, I would at times
be in front of Ken and at times retreat to the rear. About 400 miles into the journey I was
travelling ahead of him. He was
preceding rather slowly up one of the hills and I thought I would go ahead a
bit further and wait for him.
Well
it was at this point that he had a problem with the truck. It just died! It was a computer problem. Ken called Penske and was advised he
would have to be towed 200 miles to have the truck services. He advised that was not possible due to
the fact that he had a truck full and was towing a vehicle. So the service representative searched
for another possible solution and came back to Ken advising that since this
truck was brand new, it was probably a problem with the computer. He gave Ken the proper procedure to
reset the computer. It worked and
Ken was on the road again.
Meanwhile,
I did not know he had broken down.
I thought he had stopped for gas and I pulled off at two exits from
where I saw him last figuring that by the time I got gas, took the dogs out for
their pit stop and my own we would catch up to each other. This never happened until June 1st
in Boulder at the realtor�s office.
At
this point in the tale I should mention that I only had approximately $30 in my
wallet, a credit card and two dogs.
Ken had given his cell phone # to friends and relatives, but not
me. It tried to get this from Bell
Atlantic and was denied it. I even
pleaded that if I contacted the police and they spoke to Bell Atlantic would
they give them the phone number and this was also a negative. Also, Ken had all the maps and
directions. Well, when you have to
be in Boulder June 1st for the closing of your home, what to
do. You just proceed to your
destination. I knew I had to travel
on I-80 west for approximately 1600 miles, so I just left the odometer
run. When it passed 999 and reset,
I knew I had approximately another 999 to go.
The
first night I spent in the car with the dogs in a roadside truck stop. Probably slept about 1 hour, got some
coffee and proceeded toward Chicago.
I stopped about an hour later again in another road stop area and tried
to sleep for about 40 minutes.
Sleep never came, so I took the dogs out again and proceeded on wanting
to get through Chicago before traffic.
I
should also mention that Samson has a problem with his back legs in that he has
lost muscle control and is handicapped to a great degree. It took some time to figure out the best
way to load him back into the jeep.
Zeus who is all muscle but somewhat mentally handicapped also requires
assistance to get into the jeep. So
every time we stopped and I let them out, the two dogs would come barreling out
like gangbusters with Samson collapsing to the ground because his back legs
were not functioning.
May
30, 1999
We
traveled at about 55 miles an hour most of the day. I was hoping Ken would catch up to me
and every time I saw a yellow Penske truck I would hope it was him and would be
tearful when I realized it was not.
In Des Moines, Iowa I pulled off I-80 West into a Best Western. I asked the proprietor if they accepted
pets. They did and I pulled out my
credit card and we had a place to stay for the night. It was a little after 4 pm. I took a shower, feed the dogs and
rested on the bed. At 8:00p.m. I
turned the TV off and went to sleep.
I was so tired that I did not have the energy to go out for dinner.
May
31, 1999
I
woke at 5:00 a.m. again fed the dogs, packed the car and pulled just across the
street to a local restaurant. They
had a wonderful buffet and I also bought a sandwich for lunch, charging it all
(the bill was about $12), ever onward.
At a road stop in Iowa I picked up an Iowa map. Iowa and Nebraska are very large
states. It took forever to travel
through Iowa. Once in Nebraska I
picked up a Nebraska state map. I
knew at the end of this state I had to head for Denver. Once in Colorado I stopped at an
information stop area and picked up a Colorado map. Around 5:00 p.m. I was in Loveland. Thought I would find a motel to stay the
night, but no one accepted pets.
(There was no room at the inn for us.)
Well
off we went to Longmont. At this
point we encountered one god-awful hailstorm. I have never driven in anything the
likes of it. At one point I thought
the hail would come through the roof of the car. (After meeting up with Ken and
describing the storm I was in, he advised that he was settled in a motel at
this point an had the news on and heard them say that the hail storm in places
had hail the size of golf balls.)
Well, we got through the hailstorm and got into Longmont. I tried to find a motel in Longmont and
found two that would accept pets, but you had to enter through a main hallway
and this I knew I would not be able to manage with both dogs at the same time,
luggage, dog dishes, etc. If I left
one dog in the room, I was afraid they would scratch the door because they
would be spooked at being left in a room in a strange place by themselves. (By the way, they were really spooked
over this long journey. They felt
their safety was in their vehicle – which they obviously considered their
home.)
So,
at this point I thought I would find our new home and perhaps feed the dogs
there. It took me quite a while to
find our location. In the interim,
I asked several people for directions and was always helped in a very helpful
friendly manner, even thought Zeus barked ferociously at them. While at our new home, Samson found the
spring pool and went swimming. Now
I had a wet and muddy dog. What next? I had a few dollars remaining and went to
KFC for some dinner. After this we
headed off to Boulder to find shelter for the night.
I
don�t know how many motels I approached only to find they did not accept pets. I must make mention that these were not
the top rated motels and were a bit seedy looking. At 10:30 p.m. I was at the Econoline
Motel and was given the same info that they did not accept pets. At this point I asked the fellow at the
desk if he knew of a parking lot I could spend the night in and not be arrested
for vagrancy. I also made a phone
call to the realtor�s office and left a voice message. When I finished, the fellow was on the
phone evidently with the owner. He
hung up and advised that we could spend the night but did not want the dogs to
do any of their business on his property.
(I had come equipped with trowel, plastic bags, etc to clean up after
any occasion.). We were given most
probably the worst room. However
the sheets were clean and we could rest for the night.
June
1, 1999
I
woke at 4:15 a.m., fed the dogs, did my Tai Chi exercises and we were out of
there by 5:00 a.m. In the morning I
saw the debris around the courtyard of this motel. It was quite a mess and I wondered at
the particular concern of the owner about the mess my dogs would have made to
his property. (I would have cleaned up any mess.) Well, I found the realtor�s
office and then found a breakfast place on the same street where evidently all
the local residents headed. I again
explained my plight to the waitresses.
They helped me with phone directories, and numbers and asked that I
return to tell them how things turned out.
At
8:00 a.m. I was in the parking lot of Wright-Kingdom Realty. At 8:10 a.m. Ande Rice, our realtor and
friend, came in. It was wonderful
to see a person you knew. She had
been in contact with Ken and he was fine. We were both concerned over each
other. Ande had Ken�s cell phone
number. We finally got in touch by
phone and at about 9:30 am had a tearful reunion in front of the realtor�s
office. It was so good to be
together again.
We
decided to go to our new home to see if the owner would allow us to unload our
plants. We did so and headed off to
the closing in my jeep with two dogs. I was quite filthy and full of dog hair.
Great impression at a closing! Meet all the important players, your attorney,
title company agent for a loan, etc. At the end of the closing I needed to pick
up a bit of food from a local supermarket.
Ande gave me directions and I got to the supermarket with no problem.
Trying
to find my way back home proved to be quite challenging. At this point, the dogs had not been out
of the car for a few hours and one of them had to poop. So now I am lost and have this horrible
mess and smell in the car. I had a
mat in the back and rolled it up a bit and crying, lost and frustrated, finally
found my way to our new home. Exhausted and tired upon arrival, Ken said he
would bring something in for us to eat for supper. We fell into bed exhausted and got some
rest to meet the new day.
June
2, 1999
I
unboxed my plants and placed them outdoors, some were placed indoors and I had
to plant the perennials that I had brought from Connecticut. From this point on one day seems to
blend into all the others. You work as hard and long as you possible can to the
point that when Ken asked what would you like for supper, you did not even care
what you ate, just anything would do.
The
movers arrived on June 3rd.
They could not bring their 18-wheeler down our single lane dirt road
with irrigation ditches on both sides and had to shuttle the contents from
their truck into our Penske truck.
It took almost 3 days.
During this time, you were up and down stairs, in and out of the house
directing where things should go and unpacking boxes in the spare moments you
had.
When
we arrived in Colorado after that hailstorm, the weather was beautiful, sunny,
and warm and the lawn needed water.
Ken turned on the irrigation system. The pump was located in the
basement. Well, of course, it
became defective and we had a bit of a flood in the basement. Tons of boxes of belongings were soaked
and the need to unpack became even more hurried and frantic. Since this episode, Ken has moved the
irrigation pump outdoors, which is the proper place for it. He has repaired it and has it
running. However, it seems
everything needs some additional help or repair. For instance, the vacuum needs repair
also.
During
the time we have been here we have met more neighbors and people than we ever
did in Connecticut. It is truly
quite amazing to find consistently open, friendly people. Not that we don�t have friendly people
back in Connecticut, but I think you can relate to the generally cautious
approach New Englanders have.
One
neighbor owns the horse farm in back of us. They are a nice couple and we will head
over to visit one day to get a tour of their property and see Steven�s
greenhouse and his gardening efforts.
Since the gardening will be much different than in Connecticut, he will
have valuable input and I can learn from him.
A
few days ago Ken got the hot tub working.
What heaven that is! This
aching body needs the pounding jets and warm water to sooth all the aching
muscles.
It
is now June 13th, a Sunday.
My computer is still on a truck, as all of our household contents could
not be placed on the rig that delivered the bulk of our belongings. I should have this on Tuesday. This is the first opportunity for me to
use Ken�s computer. I knew my
message would be lengthy and I did not want to take away from his time on the
computer during working hours.
This
past week I brought Samson into the Longs Peak Animal Hospital. It is quite a nice setup with multiple
doctors. We saw Dr. Mike, a tall,
calm, likeable person with a deep voice, who pulled up a stool and spoke to
Samson in a calming manner, taking time to allow Samson to accept him before
Dr. Mike examined him. His
diagnosis was that Samson has a debilitating disease called Myelopathy akin to
the human Multiple Sclerosis (MS) and advised that there is no medicine or cure
for it. The disease follows
different progressions of degradation.
So we have been keeping Samson and Zeus in the walk out basement in my
arts/craft room, which is carpeted.
I spend time with them down there and bring Zeus upstairs
occasionally. It bothers me that
they cannot sleep in our bedroom with me at night. Ken went on a short business trip and I
slept in the basement on the couch in their art room while he was away.
The
views out the window as I write this adventure tale are spectacular. I know when the house is more in order
and I have more of a normal life style I will be able to take more pleasure at
just drinking in the beauty this place offers.
Love,
Diane
and Ken